some say the opposite of love is not hate but indifference

Of the gods I ask only to be ignored.
Without good or bad luck, I'll be free,
     Like the wind that's the life
     Of the air, which is nothing.
Hatred and love both seek us out;
Both oppress us, each in its own way.
     Those to whom the gods
     Grant nothing are free.

Ricardo Reis (Fernando Pessoa)

Ricardo Reis begs to differ.